Making Up For Glossed Time

Tony the Butcher: the update

I didn’t realize so many of you would be so invested in my budding romance with Tony the Butcher! But the amount of comments and DM’s (even comments on other posts!) asking for updates was crazy!

Listen, I can’t go into the butcher shop every day or else I’ll look desperate! But I went in yesterday and there have been some developments!

Thanks for caring about your auntie. I love you so much kiddos!

Love
Aunt LBD 💋

You’re perfect, kiddo. Shine bright. ✨

During Pride Month, I always think about my q***r nieces and nephews. I’ve been to a lot of Pride parades and events, and last year I even wore my “free auntie-hugs” T-shirts and hugged a lot of kids who needed one.

And each time I held one of them, it both filled my heart and broke it at the same time.

I’m always in awe of all the joy and celebration and fun that I see during Pride Month. I love watching people live in their fully expressed versions. Out, proud, and fearless.

And at the same time, I’m filled with anger while I watch other people condemn what they think is a “lifestyle” and try to box up that joy and hide it away.

For all of my q***r kiddos… if that’s what you’re feeling, I’m going to say this to you and maybe it will help:

I think all those people who have such a hard time accepting q***r kids are angry because they lack the courage and the conviction to live an unapologetically bold and joyful life. That there are things they wish they could be, and they’re too afraid to be them. And watching you live your life is the type of freedom that they wish they could have.

I hope from the bottom of my heart that you all know that, for as many loud voices out there that may hurt you, there are so many more of those like me—who celebrate you, love you, accept you, and want to live our lives just like you.

You are freedom personified.
You are love in motion.
You are joy in action.

Don’t stop dancing just because Pride Month is over, kiddo.
Life is a celebration— always, ALWAYS celebrate yours.

I love you with my whole heart. You always have an auntie who will welcome you with open arms right here, kiddo.

Go smack ‘em upside the head with all of your glitter covered fabulousness.

And drink your water. It’s important to stay hydrated while you’re out there being fabulous. 😘

Aunt LBD 💋

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UTIs that keep coming back. Dryness that makes s*x feel like sandpaper. Tissues thinning so much that sneezing becomes a gamble. These aren’t just signs of getting older — they’re signs your vaginal tissues are estrogen-starved. And there’s something you can do about it.

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ASK AUNT LBD: Dating Advice for Penelope

Hey kiddos!

You know you can ask me for advice on anything! Either leave me a question here in the comments, or send me a DM.

And be sure to give me a follow on my Instagram! Loretta Belladonna Donatacci -auntie advice!

Today we’re talking about dating, how to deal with the dating apps, and how to put yourself out there.

Sending you all lots of love!
Aunt LBD💋

Update on Tony the Butcher…😜

Hey kiddos.

It was so great to catch up with you last week! Since we last chatted, a lot of you have been asking about Tony the Butcher and if there have been any developments there.

So, today, I thought I would do some makeups and catch you up.

Go out there and smack them upside the head with all of your awesome this week, will you?

If you’re looking for some of my Auntie advice, put your questions in the comments! And be sure to give me a follow on my Instagram at

I love you so much, kiddo.

XO.
Aunt LBD 💋

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